Every statement you make with I am is an affirmation of attraction in your life. Choosing the way we use our declarations is very important. Especially if you want to feel happy. For example through the years I have heard many friends say “I am fat.” This is actually not only a false statement, but a disempowering phrase that you do not want to be using unless you enjoy feeling “fat.” You have fat, but you are not fat. Just like you have fingers you don’t tell people that “I am fingers.” Now do you?
Every time you use the description I am to anything, you are in that moment attracting more of the feelings and circumstances of that evidence into your future. You are constantly a creative being. Everything you say declares what you are attracting more of. So learning to pay attention to what you say and how you say things about yourself is an affirmation into your future.
It can feel a little tricky with your words when you aren’t use to paying attention and being careful with them. Also some people have a hard time affirming “what they would like to see” in the now. That is ok. As you practice you can begin with at least better statements and more empowering ones to yourself. You can choose to say “I am improving every day.” You could say “Each day I’m becoming more fit.” Or you could also say “With each moment, I am feeling better.” You have so many options to use more positive statements rather than self- sabatoging ones.
Basically think of the things that you dislike about yourself and stop declaring them to other people and the universe. By focusing on our flaws, we do not help improve them, we help attract more of what we do not like. You can improve on how you feel about those things now. In some circumstances you have the option to change them, but to move in that direction, we have to first create positive space for the chance to improve.
We each have an abundant amount of wonderful qualities to show and share with the world. It doesn’t serve us in our futures to shine a spotlight on our “imperfections.” The more we focus and shine a spotlight on our strengths, the more we tip the scale in our own favor. Most often the people we interact with aren’t focused on our “insecurities” unless we give them a reason to. I know that when I am in a conversation with someone, I am listening to what they have to offer and share. People tend to be more concerned with how you treat them and make them feel rather than your appearance, while you may tend to feel like they are noticing what you would like to improve.
So you can start taking the worries and anxiety away about yourself and use your affirmations more wisely. You are loved, you are valued, you are beautiful, you are strong, you are capable, you are able, and you are most certainly creative. Use these declarations more often than disempowering ones. With practice you can cut down on the disempowering declarations and improve your I am descriptions. Over time you improved statements will reflect in your life and feelings. The better you feel, the better your vibrations are at attracting positive frequencies.