Monthly Archives: January 2016

Affecting Your Reality

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Your thoughts, feelings, and beliefs affect your reality. They are connected to the universe and all that surrounds you. The way I understand this concept is to acknowledge the law of vibration. And the way I understand this law is that Everything in our universe broken down and analyzed consists of energy or light. That energy (or vibration) exists as a frequency. 
According to Dr. Emoto’s water experiment: The power of our thoughts existance.com/water-experiment/, Our thoughts, feelings, and actions have their own rates of vibration. High density objects have a lower speed of vibration. And Low density objects have a higher speed of vibration. Feelings; like objects have also been measured similarly. For example: Fear, worry, and stress, vibrate at a low frequency. Peace, calm, and feelings of love vibrate at a higher frequency.  
Thought is where everything begins. Wherever your thoughts habitually dwell, the conscious mind embeds into your subconscious mind. That in turn becomes your dominant vibration. That vibration attracts similar vibrations into your life. You may have heard the term like attracts like. Your feelings at the present moment dictate your vibrations and in turn what freqeuncy you are emanating. 
Using this understanding, we can consciously be more aware of where we are consistently vibrating. When we are aware of our thoughts and feelings, we can adjust our frequency and vibrations. Many of us have been unaware of how we are unconsciously and subconsciously creating.  
It may take a little practice to become more aware of, and get better control of, your own thoughts and feelings. Over time you can improve the direction of your life. A good example of this is animals. Did you realize they respond to the frequency you are emanating? If you are fearful, they respond accordingly. I’ve seen some animals act aggressively towards a fearful person. And of course if you are calm, relaxed, and gentle, they receive that vibration from you. It is a bit like gaining their trust with your frequency. 
So basically everything around you responds to the frequencies and vibrations that you give out. 

Since you affect your reality, the next recognition is how you are vibrating. What are you thinking and feeling? This will help direct and guide you to the frequency you are vibrating. Are you allowing more positive vibrations (that operate on higher density frequencies) to come to you, or Are you allowing more fear, worry, or negativie vibration (that vibrates at a lower density frequencies) to come to you. 
Your Thoughts, Feelings, and Beliefs affect your reality. I encourage you to pay attention and vibrate high my friends! Allow more positivity and kindness in your life. Fine tune your frequencies and get ready for attraction. 

What Do You Crave Most in Your Life?

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You are a bit of an architect of your life, and you can design your life by adjusting the direction of your thoughts. You have the capacity to foster thoughts and feelings into existence. By retraining your brain, you can create what you crave for in your life. 
Your daily habits can reprogram your subconscious mind or (auto pilot). Science and brain research has shown that we often operate from our subconscious minds. Though we have the power to operate from our conscious, we have to be fully present in each moment. Being mindful of your feelings and thoughts will help you recenter your direction. If you like what you’re observing frequently, you’re doing well. If you would like improvement in your life and vision, You can change the perception of the way you look at things. When you place your emphasis on the best in the situation, you have the leverage to change things for better. 
By choosing to refocus your thoughts, overtime you have the ability to change your receptive mode. This mode (or momentum) tunes your vibration (or frequency) to attract your intentions. For example, if you desire to feel secure, train your thoughts to things and situations that feel secure. If you would like to be more happy, then you would want to focus on happy thoughts, memories, and visualizations. And the cool thing is you can use the power of past, present, or future in your focus. For example, you utilize the past by remembering happy events. You can utilize the present by focusing on what is presently making you happy, and you also can utilize the future by envisioning happy events. The center of attention can be anything from health, love, peace, abundance, freedom, to your desired intention. 
We are setting up the brain to vibrate the frequency of what you seek (crave). As you create the feeling of what you crave now, you adjust your radar for attracting similar experiences. The more often you can vibrate as if you already have it, You then set your compass to attract circumstances, people, and events to match that frequency. You receive more of the same! You are cultivating habits of thought towards your premeditated design. And yes, I used the term premeditated in a positive manner. The dictionary describes premeditation as a deliberate intent, the planning or plotting of something before doing. Instead of thoughts of harm or murder, we are using this definition for zest in life! Same definition, but the aim is towards more favorable circumstances in your life. 
One of my favorite authors Dr. Wayne Dyer said, “If you change the way you look at things, the things you look at will change.” A wonderful reminder that we can choose our perceptions and shift the momentum of energy in our lives towards our aspirations.  
Engage daily on the thoughts and feelings that support your intentions. The more you practice, the more you will operate from the positive set point.. By consciously focusing, you reprogram the subconscious to be gifted with what you seek.  

You Are the Captain of Your Ship

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The thoughts you think and words you speak create your experiences. I believe this is one of our greatest powers and potentials. To acknowledge this capability gives you the opportunity to shape your life towards what you want more of. Whether the desire is for better health, love, finances, self improvement, spirituality, or happiness, you are the navigator of your life experience.
Our thoughts and emotions are vibrational energy. Everything vibrates at some speed. Everything that appears solid is a summation of vibration and energy. From the things we see, to nature, us, and even our thoughts all vibrate frequency and energy.
Quantum physics has proved that even though matter appears solid, when you look at it through high powered microscopes, it breaks down into immeasurable energy. One of my favorite physicist and inventors Nikola Tesla stated, “If you want to find the secrets of the universe think in terms of energy, frequency, and vibration”. He often harnessed the power of his brain and thoughts to create, discover, and invent some of the greatest discoveries of all time. He appeared to understand this process enough to leave behind a legacy of inventions and ideas.
What we download into our subconscious becomes the vibration and frequency we operate from. What is important to know for navigation in life is the awareness of what you are vibrating. Are you living and experiencing what you want? Are you receiving the experiences of your desires? The helpful tip is to know more of how to align and vibrate towards what you intend.
I like to focus in small applicable ways that you can implement in your life. When you wake up, Do you set the intention for your day? Do you choose to be happy? Or do you wake up and start your day in habits and actions without much thinking? Are you present in those moments, or moving through the actions for completion? A good step is first to be aware of your current point of attraction, then you can be more deliberate in how you align with your thoughts and create your day. To intend or unite with more positive thoughts help you to vibrate in a higher frequency. The more positive your thinking becomes regularly, you will vibrate a frequency that attracts more positive experiences and circumstances in your life.
If you are very negative and complain frequently, you set your energy and point of attraction to a vibrational frequency that attracts those experiences. More worry, and stress breeds more worry and stress. Again, whether it be more positive or negative, you receive more of the same frequency your vibrating. The choice is yours. Every day. And you can shift it bit by bit every day by paying attention and choosing your frequency. Understand and believe in your power. Shape your life into a life you love by using your thoughts and words to vibrate that frequency. You are the author of your story and captain of your ship.

You Get What You Think About

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   Have you heard the term “You get what you think about whether you want it or not”? I’ve heard it referred to by many teachers through the years, I can’t even quote who originally said it. But I have found it to be very true whether I like it or not.  
    So If this continues to prove true, it really makes a difference to focus on the direction you intend your life to flow. If you want to be happy, the key really is to focus on the things you already have. The more gratitude you practice, it’s as if you are saying to the universe, “Thank you and more, please.”  When you complain and focus on what is missing, you do receive more of what is missing. Regardless of your job and circumstances. I’ve known people in the the same profession, but opposite ends of income. You can be successful at any career, but the intention and energy you set forth, will be your results.  
    So how are you thinking? Watch your language with people when you talk about what you currently do. Are you optimistic? Even if you aren’t currently doing what you want to, it helps to know that to move in the direction of your dreams, you may need to change your language and attitude in the current circumstances. 

The power behind your intentions and feelings actually bring better circumstances over time. So if you are in a job that you really don’t like, you may need to improve your perspective.  
    When you can come from the place of optimism of where you currently are, you become more open and allowing of what you want to flow in. Opportunities show up when we are team players in the universe. Being grateful in your current circumstances does attract brighter paths. If you can focus on all the positive aspects of where you are rather than focus on what is lacking, the next step and people show up at the perfect time.  
    If you are a bit unsatisfied with some current circumstances, the way to turn them into more positive experiences is to keep looking on the bright side or positive aspects. Complaining and continuing to discuss the things that are wrong and not working, brings more of those experiences to you. So you can use the power of your brain with the world. You may need some creativity in your thinking to find the positive aspects, but they are there. You can make a list and journal them. You can speak as if the things you want are on the way. You can create a vision board, or simply set the intentions for change.  
    Any of the ways that resonate to you is not as big of a point as being more cautious in the perspective you currently have. The main point is that if you get what you think about whether you want it or not gives us some clue as to how we attract what we’d like. Since we can’t control people, jobs, and circumstances, you DO have the power to control your attention. Every day and in each moment we have a choice on how we mentally focus. Think more about what you want. Think about what makes you happy. Focus on what you have. The time spent thinking in this direction is not a waste of time. It is using the universe and energy to your advantage. We are not helpless creatures of the world. We are creative wonderful human beings.  
    I encourage you to be creative and enjoy your thoughts more. Dream big, and give your mind permission to believe anything is possible. IF you get what you think about whether you like it or not, you might as well get more of what you’d like. 

Which wolf do you feed?

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I remember reading a Native American Cherokee Indian story where the grandfather is teaching his grandson about life. He describes about a fight going on inside between two wolves. One an angry wolf full of sorrow, greed, self pity, arrogance, and ego. The other being good that is full of joy, peace, love, kindness and hope. It was a conversation between grandfather and grandson. The grandfather explains that the fight is not only inside the grandson, but within each and every person. After the Have you heard the term “you get what you think about whether you want it or not”? I’ve heard it referred to by many teachers though the years, I can’t even quote who originally said it. But I have found it to be very true whether I like it or not.  
   So If this continues to prove true, it really makes a difference to focus on the direction you intend your life to flow. If you want to be happy, the key really is to focus on the things you already have. The more gratitude you practice, it’s as if you are saying to the universe, “thank you and more please”. When you complain and focus on what is missing, you do receive more lack. Regardless of your job and circumstances. I’ve known people in the the same profession, but opposite ends of income. You can be successful at any career, but the intention and energy you set forth, will be your results.     So how are you thinking? Watch your language with people when you talk about what you currently do. Are you optimistic? Even if you aren’t currently doing what you want to, it helps to know that to move in the direction of your dreams, you may need to change your language and attitude in the current circumstances. 
The power behind your intentions and feelings actually bring better circumstances over time. So if you are in a job that you really don’t like, you may need to improve your perspective.    When you can come from the place of optimism of where you currently are, you become more open and allowing of what you want to flow in. Opportunities show up when we are team players in the universe. Being grateful in your current circumstances does attract brighter paths. If you can focus on all the positive aspects of where you are rather than focus on what is lacking, the next step and people show up at the perfect time.  

  If you are a bit unsatisfied with some current circumstances, the way to turn them into more positive experiences is to keep looking on the bright side or positive aspects. Complaining and continuing to discuss the things that are wrong and not working, brings more of those experiences to you. So you can use the power of your brain with the world. You may need some creativity in your thinking to find the positive aspects, but they are there. You can make a list and journal them. You can speak as if the things you want are on the way. You can create a vision board, or simply set the intentions for change.  
Any of the ways that are content full to you is not as big of a point as being more cautious in the perspective you currently have. The main point is that if you get what you think about whether you want it or not gives us some clue as to how we attract what we’d like. Since we can’t control people, jobs, and circumstances, you DO have the power to control your attention. Every day and in each moment we have a choice on how we mentally focus. Think more about what you want. Think about what makes you happy. Focus on what you have. The time spend thinking in this direction is not a waste of time. It is using the universe and energy to your advantage. We are not helpless creatures of the world. We are creative wonderful human beings.  
   I encourage you to be creative and enjoy your thoughts more. Dream big, and give your mind permission to believe anything is possible. IF you get what you think about whether you like it or not, you might as well get more of what you’d like. ponders the scenario, he asks which wolf wins? And the grandfather replies, whichever one you feed.

It has always seemed like a simple and powerful story to me, but until we pay attention to our emotions, this can be easier said than done. I believe the most powerful impact we can make with the internal dialog or “wolf” in each of us, is in our daily interactions. By choosing more positive, kind, and patient responses with ourselves and others, we can feed the wolf that we want more of. To be happy and more kind, is a choice that we make every day. In each moment with ourself and those we come into contact in one shape or form, we have a choice in how we respond.

If you want to know how your doing, look around to see how things are going in your life. If you feel happy and kind most of the time, you have a good hang at it. If you would like some improvement, an easy place to start is paying attention to how you are responding with your own thoughts and interacting with others. Are you critical and self judging mostly? Do you get angry or resentful quick? These questions help point you to which wolf you are feeding most often.

Slowing down to be more mindful of your conversation with yourself and how patient and kind you are with others can help you empower your choices in the wolf you feed. When you’d like to experience more joy, peace, and kindness, we need to daily feed the wolf in ourselves and reflect that to others. That is how we shift our energy. A little at a time each day fosters more of what we wish to experience. You do breed what you feed.
I’ve learned to be very careful of where I focus my attention daily. It has helped me tremendously with my wolves. I am careful not to bombard my brain with too much negative news, drama, and complaints. You have the power to steer away from that kind of energy. Maybe not always, but I dominantly do so. And I believe if I can, you certainly can also. I generally start my day as positive as I can, and feed my brain with inspiration. Whether it be reading, writing, or listening to a YouTube of something that inspires me, It fills me before I leave my home and enables me to be kinder to others. I use a lot of snip its along the way each day.
You of course have to find small ways that work for you and are applicable, but be mindful of how you start your day and little things you can do to improve the thoughts and feelings you feed your wolves. Before responding, think to yourself what your feeding. It can just start with simple awarness. You can extend it to random acts of kindness each day. Encourage others rather than looking for their faults. We all have them and we can be kinder by looking for and pointing out the beauty and good in others over criticism. Think of it as a mirror. What would you like people to reflect back to you?
You do have control over the wolf. If you feel otherwise, you have just given too much of your power away. That is where starting by being mindful helps you regroup. And be patient with yourself. You can turn it around and shift the momentum. You have that choice daily. And it builds and it grows. Feed that wolf inside with more kindness, joy, and love. See if it in turn (over time), you receive the same.

Taking Time for Yourself 

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Do you have a little time each day that you spend on yourself? A distraction from the busyness or stresses in life? We are very connected to our technology and media outside of our daily schedules and responsibilites. It takes very little effort to create some space for your mind to utilize it’s rest and imagination. When you take a little time in the mornings, a break in the day, or winding down for the day, you can connect deeper with yourself and experience more calmness. This can lead to more of ease with yourself and your family. The more ease you experience with your self spills out onto those around you.
     It helps to look at it as peaceful time you need for yourself and less of a chore. At first new habits can seem a bit daunting when you see what little time you may set aside for yourself, but it can also highlight the drastic need for a bit more self time. If you think about your cars, homes, and things you own, Most people wouldn’t think twice about the maintenance of their cars and homes to make them last and work more efficiently. But I’m always surprised when working with clients the guilt people put upon themselves for taking more time and care of themselves. Just like our things, we can run more efficiently and smooth when we regularly deposit into ourselves.
     I’m sure that is a logical enough of a reason, but a question I’m often asked is how can you actually apply it to a busy life. Is it possible to balance it all. I believe you can, but may take some rearranging or repriortizing a bit.

A bit of creative scheduling. Small steps are a good starting point when it seems impossible to create more time for yourself. It is a commitment to yourself and may require a bit more organizing of your time.
     This can really help organize and set boundaries not only for the new space you are designating to yourself, but it will also help create boundaries for not giving more of your time to the tasks scheduled.  
For example, let’s say you have blocked a certain amount of time going into a daily routine such as dinner, clean up, or even a tv show at the end of the day. Could you set a specific amount of time to the tasks, and walk away even if could use a little more time? I think we could all continue any one task, but then we get nothing else done.
     I’ve found at times I have had to say no to things I want to do, because I don’t have enough time to do it all. So I have to prioritize the most important things and then trickle down. I actually get so much more done by doing this little exercise. I have not only the time I set aside for my writing and hobbies, but I also haven’t neglected my work, family, and home responsibilities. I may not have got everything done, but I have done as much as I can productively do in a day. I find often, I have put things on my list that are either unrealistic or not as important as my brain would like to tell me “I needed to get done”. A common game I find we play with ourselves. We plan on doing more for ourselves when “we have the time” that never seems to reveal itself. So you really have to schedule that appointment of time with yourself.
     Think of it like a doctor apt. You will arrange your schedule around someone’s else’s, perhaps you could treat your own time as important. It can be definitely worth the investment when it gives you more peace and clarity on a daily basis. I’ve often found it also helpful to reward yourself along the way. When you can accomplish much on your daily list along with time for yourself, you will begin to see the possibilities of your goals.
     The fun part is you get to start paying attention to the things you enjoy or have always wanted to do. Perhaps it’s a bit more art, reading, writing, cooking, learning a new skill, or even something as small as coloring for 20 min. The time set aside does not need to be a huge gap. Just 30 minutes to an hour. Whatever works best for you. Since the time passes with the daily chores anyway, consider penciling yourself in too. I encourage you to try it for a month. See what changes. Start a journal of the process. Notice your happiness level on the days you’re able to spend the time with yourself doing more of what brings you joy, peace, or clarity.

You can’t often control circumstances, but you can choose the direction of your thoughts.

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You have the abliity to focus in ways that you have not exercised enough to see the results of  your desires.  Too many people are dependent on the behavior of too many others which they don’t have any control over. They then put themselves in control freak modes which is attempting to control the uncontrolable. 

You can adjust your feelings and vibrations to match what you do want.  You just have to spend more time looking at what you do want instead of always focusing on what you don’t want.  Because you can not have both.   Your focus is like a muscle, the more you practice the better you get at it.  If you’ve not practiced the habit of looking for the good in things; being positive, or even being grateful;  it may take a little time changing the direction of your habitual focus (momentum).  That is why small steps each day can increase your outlook and intentions.  

   I believe science is just starting to catch up with understanding the power we have using our minds and yes, our imagination.  We are often taught to ignore our imaginations and accept “responsiblitlies” and by the time we’ve matured quite a bit,  we realize it’s a sham.  We actually create with our imagination. Whether the focus is on things we want or dread, we get what we think about and our expectations are met with how we feel. It can seem daunting at first to realize the power of our thoughts and emotions.  But it can be a wonderful gift once you slow down enough to care about how you’re focusing.  It does take a little awarness and paying attention. You start to become more dilberate in your thinking and thus more picky about your thoughts and reactions to others. 

You can’t often control circumstances, but you can choose the direction of your thoughts.  So be picky about what you focus on and create a positive and enjoyable direction for you thoughts.