Through the years I’ve noticed many people struggling with searching for their purpose. I think at times we just try to make it so big that we miss the lighted staircase. We think it has to be something on a grand scale or we are missing it. I think it is wonderful when you can feel confident in knowing your purpose here on earth and in life. Sometimes that purpose evolves and sometimes it only moves for a period of time.
There are some common themes we may notice in life that help define our purpose. For example, I have a dear friend that feels strongly that his purpose in life is to encourage and love others. I think many of us can find that common ground, but how does that play in your life? It certainly doesn’t seem to define your work or career label. Although you can recognize how you bring that purpose to the table in everything you do.
Some people think your purpose has to be big like ending hunger, changing politics, making sure the world has clean running water, or repairing the earth. There is absolutely nothing wrong with these big inspirations steering your life. The thing I notice many people struggle with is not knowing exactly what their call or purpose in life is. This not knowing can make you feel stuck, uninspired, or maybe even lost.
If this is you and if you wonder what difference you make in your life, I encourage you to be a little easier on yourself. Often our purpose occurs daily in the small things we do and how we treat those we interact with. Your purpose may be being patient with the ones you interact with. Perhaps you exude love to all your co workers. Maybe you don’t even realize the impact you make with your presence within your own family each day. You can be the driving force to help things get accomplished. You could be the support your friends need each day. And perhaps just the simple fact that you feed your family and take care of your home is infused with holiness.
Your purpose is your inner essence and energy that you weave in your everyday life. It doesn’t necessarily have to be defined with a label or feel so big that it eludes you. We all will have different journeys in life with different purposes. We will all have an impact that is unique and makes a difference at different levels. I also think it is healthy to acknowledge that your purpose can change or evolve. As we grow in life, our perspectives and opportunities change.
I think self exploration is a beautiful goal to help you investigate your purpose. It can help you enhance and move from a deeper level in your relationships, work, and daily interactions. At the same time, you certainly don’t need to give yourself a hard time if you aren’t quite sure. While you take some time in reflection, you can be aware of some common themes that resonate with you. I just want to encourage you to gentle with yourself on definitions. You don’t have to solve the world’s big problems to feel your significance.
Know that just being you and infusing your life with your own energy each day is purpose enough. If you feel the urge to dig deeper, do it with a kind and patient heart. Our purpose can be one or many. Big or small. Just remember we all have a purpose in our existence and gifts to offer. Don’t get too impatient with yourself if you are unsure. Like the mysteries in life tend to unfold, so will your purpose.